Resource compendium:

Esther Perel Ted talk : The secret to desire in long term relationships :

https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship?language=en

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Polly Young-Eisendrath - Intro to dialogue therapy : Love Between Equals  

https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B07DZJ6ZF5&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_p8HMFbAQNN13R